I heard this little gem the other day:
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For parents everywhere…
When Kids Are: Do This:
Small Listen, Teach, Teach
Adolescents Listen, Listen, Teach
Young Adults Listen, Listen, Listen
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Now, assuming your spouse, co-workers, boss, clients, and team are all adults…
BUILT TO LEAD 
Jim, if I remember correctly, Chester’s Mother shared this insight with him.
Great words and makes complete sense, requires great patience and love.