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For freakin’ ever we’ve known the amygdala is the center of the emotional brain. No amygdala? No emotion. Think again. You see, friend, scientists have recently discovered the amygdala is not the only “alarm circuit of fear.” When studying people who have lost the use of their amygdala, they had no fear of strangers, hot, … Continue reading Think again…

Here’s a deep truth, leader. The quicker you make decisions the better. The best leaders make the most bets, they just don’t bet the farm. Here’s their keystone habit. The minute they have a sense something’s not right - they act on it. They stop the saboteur before the damage is done. They stop the … Continue reading Bias…

Nothing lasts forever. You know this. We mostly live our lives, however, as if they will last forever. They won’t. Your children are on loan. Your career? Nope, not a chance. Your healthy/physical life? Not a prayer. Your friends? They will come and go. Nothing lasts forever. Fact. So, friend, we have choices to make. … Continue reading Nothing…

I woke up early this morning anticipating my ride with Markel. We recently rekindled our friendship after years of neglect, not purposeful neglect, you know, it just takes time and intention to keep friendships alive. Not true, actually. It takes psychological energy to keep relationships alive. You have to open your heart, time after time … Continue reading Water wisely…

From left to right that’s me, Squirrel, and Hannus. What a team. Squirrel has been my trusted caddy for 30 years now. I look forward to every round they allow me to work with him. He knows me, my game, and gives me rations of shit. I return the favor. The dude on the far … Continue reading Teams…

I know you are super busy getting all kinds of good things done. I see it in your darting eyes, nervous twitches, and uneasy posture, so I’ll get right to the point. It’s not your position, it’s your presence. It’s not your power, it’s your presence. It’s not your perfection, it’s your presence. It’s not … Continue reading Be with…

Gotta stay on track. Gotta stay open. The first words represent a normal, career mindset. I gotta stay on track is what most career minded dudes tell themselves when other opportunities appear. They double down on their commitment to finish what they started. This folks are gritty and going places. All good. The trouble starts … Continue reading Gotta…

Your business does not run on steel and concrete if you’re in construction. If you run a real estate business, it doesn’t run on rent you collect or properties sold. Insurance? Does not run on premiums paid. Hospital? Does not run on patients cared for any more than a Church runs on nickels and noses. … Continue reading Your words…