Specific, concrete, and actionable…

You do not get better by learning things, you can better by doing things. If you ever become a client of mine, you will quickly learn the principles around productive action. You see, friend, PA must be specific, concrete, and actionable. Way too many well meaning clients have big desires but lack tiny disciplines. So, … Continue reading Specific, concrete, and actionable…

Death…

Philip II, the father of Alexander the Great, thought one way. Louis XIV, thought differently. Both were lucky enough to be crowned as King. Philip II, a Macedonian, who probably lacked formal education and proper manners, thought "early and often" about his eventual death. In fact, he hired a servant to remind him daily of … Continue reading Death…

Four healers…

According to John & Julie Gottman (freakin’ genius relationship scientists) the “Four Horsemen of the Apocalypse” regarding relationships are - Criticism, Defensiveness, Contempt, and Stonewalling. Avoid these. Consider them the plague. Here's the BTL four healers. Feel free to overdose on these, friend. 1. When talking about anything tough, remember to give the teammate some … Continue reading Four healers…