Dial…

We rarely react well when given feedback that’s been aging in another humans craw. I mean c’mon man have you ever been blindsided by your lover about conflict he or she’s been holding onto for freakin’ forever? Talk about tweaking another’s justice thread.

Remember this. Problems do not age well. The best way to dial down the volume in heated moments? Dial each other up the minute there’s a problem. Dial it down by dialing ‘em up, you know. Talk. Most conflict is simply a conversation to be had…

What problem are you burying or (worse yet) talking to others about instead of the person with whom the problem resides? This is gossip. Stop this. Dial up the dude you’re sideways with. Do it now. Amazingly your volume will rarely be turned up when you deal with conflict before it has you all bat shit crazy. Dial ‘em up now or dial up the volume later. You choose. Your choices have consequences.

Live hard. Love harder…