Know your aim, know your priorities. A client of mine has gotten clearer on a bolted on belief - that their highest purpose is related to their family and to providing understanding, connectedness, and helping their little ones grow. The clearer this client is on their highest purpose, the more they are letting go of … Continue reading Know your aim
Author: Rachel Hanson
Integrated living
We don't rise to the occasion, we fall to the level of our training. This Navy Seal maxim is true in all facets of our lives. The other day in a practice with a group of leaders they wrote and shared about how their experiences as parents are shaping them into better leaders. For some … Continue reading Integrated living
Survive then scale
One of my clients is building a company. They're on a mission to change the industry they're in for the better. I believe they'll do it. They're in startup mode right now and growing quickly with lots of demand for their service. Is it time to bring in more people and scale, they wanted to … Continue reading Survive then scale
Constraint breeds creativity
Early in a journey of mastery everything tends to be cookie cutter, plug and play. You're learning a new system and skillset so that means a lot of learning by rote and copying. Truth is, with any skill endeavor you must learn the basic plays before you can learn to riff and create. As you … Continue reading Constraint breeds creativity
Face the hard
Rarely is "make things easier" the right answer. "Make things simpler" can be. "Make things more accessible" sometimes works as well. But the inclination to make things easier can quickly lead down a dangerous path. The hard, I believe, is what makes things great. Or at the very least, great things can only be found … Continue reading Face the hard
Direct vs demanding
Direct is not the same thing as demanding. Direct means knowing what you believe and stating it clearly. It means fearless in speaking the truth that needs to be said. It does not, in and of itself, carry any expectations of the other. Demanding carries an implication that my way is right and you'll follow … Continue reading Direct vs demanding
Be a practitioner
If you're a logic-oriented thinker it's likely very easy and even tempting to think something through to the logical conclusion, solve it intellectually, and then move on. Thinking it is only half the game. Be a practitioner. A practitioner thinks the thing AND does the thing. The doing is the slower work. It's not thinking … Continue reading Be a practitioner
Train your brain
There's value in being an overcomer, a gamer, a grinder. AND...when what you're having to overcome and grind against is your own brain and your own negative self talk, it becomes exhausting. Self sabotage is no fun, even if you're capable of overcoming it. Get your brain on your side so that you can grind … Continue reading Train your brain
