If something feels too big, too hard to get started on, it just means your first step isn't small enough. Heard this the other day and loved it. Baby steps is the way. Work your way into taking on bigger challenges over time, and remember it always starts with baby steps. Pick a small enough … Continue reading Baby steps
Author: Rachel Hanson
Misery and diapers
Funny conversation with a client the other day. He wrote a principle - I will not sit in misery. The first thing that popped into my mind was my 1 year old son and his poopy diapers. Bear with me. They (the poopy diapers) happen multiple times a day, and one thing he never does … Continue reading Misery and diapers
Meaning, mastery, and money
If we chase money for money's sake, it's never enough. See day 35 in Becoming Built to Lead. A lesson we humans seem to have hard time letting sink in. Alternatively if we chase meaning and never do the hard work of building mastery we have a hard time making a living. So what's the … Continue reading Meaning, mastery, and money
Stress
What you believe directly leads to how you respond to situations. Big growth periods in a business are often accompanied by stress and destabilization. Normal. How you and the team respond to it depends on what you believe. Is all destabilization bad? Is all stress bad? If you believe that, then you and your team … Continue reading Stress
Competence vs confidence
Competence matters way more than confidence. Confidence comes and goes. Get a less than desirable result and your confidence may wane. Failure, however, does not negate the reps you've taken, aka your level of competence. Competence breeds confidence. When you're in the proverbial arena, you can remind yourself that you've done the work to be … Continue reading Competence vs confidence
Weak sauce
Most 360s are a way to offload the pain of dealing with a problem you're avoiding. If you're the one wanting feedback on yourself, and you choose to get a 360...that's the chicken's way out. Weak sauce. Go slow down, build better relationships, ask others to give you truth and then learn to dig deeper … Continue reading Weak sauce
Quarter Horses
Train to be a quarter horse, not a thoroughbred. Thoroughbreds are fast. Bred and trained for speed and endurance. Outside of that, they're neurotic messes - flighty, injury prone, easily spooked by a plastic bag floating by. Quarter horses, on the other hand are un-phased by just about everything. They're still very fast for short … Continue reading Quarter Horses
Rising to expectations, not occasions
People don't rise to the occasion, they fall to their level of training. You hear this Navy Seal maxim frequently in BTL. It's true. Here's an and - people often DO rise to expectations over time. I've got a client whose boss just recently walked into their office and declared that they they were now … Continue reading Rising to expectations, not occasions
