David Brooks has written about resume vs eulogy virtues. The norm for most of us is to spend most of our focus and our career years building resume virtues. I.e. the skills you build up and bring to the marketplace. The ones you would list on your resume. Most of us focus our efforts here. … Continue reading Eulogy virtues
Author: Rachel Hanson
Conquerors vs rulers
Some leaders are conquerors by nature- business builders, mavericks, quick to make decisions and a lot of them. Some are more rulers by nature - consensus builders, good at building alignment across branches, bringing people together. Every great leader needs a bit of both, or at least the ability to flex to the other style. … Continue reading Conquerors vs rulers
Break it
“I’m known for being a coach who goes harder after winning. If it isn’t broken, break it. Because comfort is the death of teams.” – Emma Hayes Comfort is the death of teams. You could also say comfort is the death of excellence. Great coaches, great leaders, get a little itchy when things get comfortable. … Continue reading Break it
Drivers
High achievers are often (usually) drivers. Drivers of productivity. Drivers toward a goal. Drivers of meetings and agendas. What’s the risk if you’re always driving? No one else is given the space to drive, or even to learn how to drive. High achieving leaders must learn to step back, encourage, and even challenge others to … Continue reading Drivers
Trust accounts
Trust (and thus leadership) is like a bank account - you're constantly crediting or debiting (thanks for the analogy, Andy). Either making a deposit by building trust through your reliability, care, communication, etc., or debiting by commission or omission - failure to be reliable, making an unnecessarily harsh critique because you're in a bad mood, … Continue reading Trust accounts
Overcooked
A client of mine is true polymath by nature. Loves to understand and pursue mastery in a wide variety of domains. AND...everything comes with a tradeoff. Overcooked, that same impulse leads to news scanning, fractured attention, and going down random rabbit holes to understand things that aren't actually important, interesting, or relevant to this client's … Continue reading Overcooked
Be the change
Gandhi had it right - be the change you want to see. I've got a client who came to me frustrated - he got dinged on a performance review with anonymous feedback that the system has not given him directly. That's a problem. A healthy functioning system doesn't wait for performance reviews, they give truth … Continue reading Be the change
Belief
Competence matters more than confidence. We know this. Does competence in and of itself lead to belief? There's certainly a high degree of correlation. The and, I believe, is this. Belief is rooted both in what I've done and in a clear and strong identity. If I put in the work and I still tell … Continue reading Belief
