Category: Blog

The Noticer arrived via Amazon yesterday. Miss placed it on my crowded, book filled desk assuming it was another book order of mine. It. Was. Not.  This happens to be more than once in awhile. People send me books, recommend movies, share music with me that matters, all because they've caught the BTL bug. They want … Continue reading Thank you…

All humans listen to one voice more than any other - their own. The problem begins here. Most of us haven’t fixed the little voice in our head. We’re listening to the drunk in our head, not the saint in our heart. The more we read and reflect on our CORE, the more we quiet … Continue reading Your voice…

Here are the discovery questions for those that asked for them. Check them out. And, add this one. What’s the hardest thing you’ve ever gone through and how did you get through it. Thanks for your attention. 1.     Tell me about your signature strengths? 2.     Tell me how you use these strengths in life/work? 3.     Tell me about … Continue reading Discovery…

Leader, wake up. You don't need to be the "Shell answer man" but you do need a full tank of questions. If you want my favorite questions just ask me for the discovery document and I'll send it your way. It’s 81 questions long. You've been forewarned. Stop focusing on changing people, circumstances and situations … Continue reading Change your questions…

Today I received some feedback I could use. One dude jumped my shit in team practice. Said I was coaching up my client and not being ccd, at least that’s what I heard. Good to hear. Another shared his impression of me with a teammate. He thought I was a looney tune. Good to know. … Continue reading Looney…

I wrote this over sixteen years ago. Seems like a lifetime and only yesterday at the same time. Our little girl is expecting a little girl of her own. Has me reflecting a lot as Miss and I ponder being grandparents to Daisy Jane and Krit’supandcomer. This morning, Miss and I will be heading back … Continue reading Krit…

There is power in your pen, friend, but only if you are willing to not overthink or attempt to make it pretty. The best writing, the writing that brings crystal clarity, feels like you felt when you threw up literally - it kinda sucks when it’s coming up but man do you feel better when … Continue reading Write like this…

It took me a long time to learn this concept, but once I did, it was a game-changer. Do you spend time trying to help people who are struggling raise the bar, or are you focused on the few who can raise the bar for everyone? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3E6r_47iTdA