Win…

We are meant for deep, meaningful relationships. These are not built on easy street. You can be too strong and you can be too weak. You can be right and it all go wrong. So what the hell will help build deep, meaningful relationships, you ask?

Choose to lose.

Swallow hard and move toward another, anyway. Stay in there when feeling wrecked and wronged. Hang in when greeted by “get lost.” Learn to hear the yearning enveloped in the nastygram shell. Damn. You see, friend, transformational relationships are built when someone hurting, someone on the brink of losing it, someone tired, and someone very human and used to getting things his or her way, makes a crazy decision to “choose to lose.” It truly doesn’t take two. Transformation takes ONE, distinct and deeply connected, BBTL. Be one of the few. Fix you (not another). Damn.

Choose to lose.

God, help me see the wisdom in losing more. God, help me learn to understand victory within allows me to embrace taking second with another. God help me lose. God, help me.

Live hard. Love harder. Choose to lose, you just may win…