I do…

Couples, when they come together in most marriage ceremonies, answer their Priest or Pastor with a slew of “I do’s;” “we do’s,” not so much. They are becoming one in this most sacred of relationship yet the leader, if you will, addresses them as two. There is a deep why behind this process. Here it is. Do not miss this. This could be huge. We don’t get better. We don’t get better, remember…

I do.

And, when my significant other hears me wanting to get better, it’s most likely contagious. There are no equal partnerships in work and life. All of our relationship get sustainably better when I choose to get better; when I choose to self assess; when I choose to turn my critical eye inward. We don’t get better when I keep dividing my attention toward what you could do different. Human’s, remember, deeply change when it’s their own idea to change. Play to this in your partnerships. Practice working on you, first. We just got better. Do you see this?

I do…