…is one of the distinctives that separate humans from the animal world. And it’s one of our universal top 5 fears — that we’ll come & go without it making any difference.
Millions of books are sold about finding purpose. There are no magic formulas, but Becoming BUILT TO LEAD will give you a framework, beginning with your worldview. Your core beliefs about why we’re here, what it means to be a human, is there a God, can we know him, etc., are foundational. For example:
If you believe life’s a party and you only go around once, your purpose will be to grab for all the gusto you can.
If you believe life’s a bitch and then you die, your purpose will be to survive and minimize suffering.
If you believe life’s a free-for-all competition, your purpose will be to take care of #1.
If you believe life’s about revenge and retribution, your purpose will be to settle the score.
If you believe life is the gift of God, your purpose will be to honor God with how you steward it.
The BTL Builder’s Journey entails transformation of Worldview and Purpose from self-centered/other-controlling (fear-based/scarcity mentality) to core-centered/self-controlling (love-based/abundance mentality).
Self-Centered/Other-Controlling ==> Core-Centered/Self-Controlling
Purpose begins with worldview, but it comes to life when you discover your identity — what makes you distinct. When you’re awakened, challenged and transformed into the distinct, authentic, and mature version of you, you will be ready to fulfill your purpose, namely…
…to be yourself, fully alive — the glory of God — bringing your distinct gifts, strengths, inspirations, culture, character, competencies, personality, and passions to others around you. In so doing, you will discover a new freedom — the freedom to give. You will also discover a new oneness within as you live out your purpose in all the different roles that come and go in life. We were created in love for love….to become and belong — distinct and deeply connected, from a lone toward all ONE — one ‘L of a difference.
With clarity in your worldview and identity, let’s re-examine your love-tos and your strengths. Your strengths aren’t what you’re good at — they’re what give you energy. Gallup has compiled thirty-four strength-themes with an online instrument to discover your top 5 (you’ll need a new copy of StrengthFinders 2.0 by Tom Rath to get the code). There’s just under thirty-four million combinations, so the odds of finding anyone with the same top 5 (let alone same order) are akin to a DNA sequence. They give you language to describe your hardwiring — and for writing out your Purpose (the ‘P’ for your OPUS). Here’s mine (my #1 is ‘relator’):
My Purpose is to help others relate to why they’re here, who they are, and how
to work & live using their strengths & gifts —
with clarity, depth, comprehensiveness, significance, and alignment.
What are your top 5, friend? How about a rinse of your love tos… and then v1.0 of your Purpose, please.
Your OPUS focus just got clearer. Good.
Embrace it. Live it. Love it (Thanks, Toto)…