Day 36 (Self-centered and other-controlling)…

...is our BTL description of what a weak core and scarcity worldview look like. We see it all around us. Despite it's name, it's neither truly centered on the human spectrum of free-will, nor is it truly controlling anyone despite its efforts to do so. Sometimes the trap operates like a prison, where the lie … Continue reading Day 36 (Self-centered and other-controlling)…

Watch your language…

...because words matter. "I told her she needs to...." "You should just...." "They have to..." "Dumbass..." Your language reflects the culture you are building, and every leader has exactly the culture he or she deserves. To change your culture, start with changing your language, including the language you use to talk to yourself...sooner or later, … Continue reading Watch your language…

Your team’s culture is revealed…

...through their emotions. Not your emotions — theirs. Average teams have wrong emotions about wrong stuff. Elite teams have right emotions about right stuff. Leaders who are soft on their teams enable wrong emotions.   So do leaders who are hard on their teams while soft on themselves. For better or for worse, a culture … Continue reading Your team’s culture is revealed…