To become a master connector you must become a master at tuning into others and picking up the signals that they are attempting to mask. Funny, huh. True billy too.
Here’s the problem; few humans have taken off their own mask, FIRST. Have you?
You cannot catch the subtle, complex, and mysterious vibe of another if you’re still thinking about how to hide yourself. The brain does not like to multitask, remember, and when in doubt, it’s gonna protect itself, FIRST. Try as you may to really tune in to your bride, your brother, your boss, your bad-ass bud, your builder, or your big-time business associate, if you’ve not done the REAL, HARD, WORK to build within, your brain is gonna be way too busy to notice. Painful patterns will persist. Mastery, not so much.
Today, work within. Get busy building your interior space, your CORE. You see, the hard work here is what enables you to read the hard-ass with ease. The hard work here is what allows you to hear through the hurting and struggling at work. The hard work here is what frees your mind to focus on those that you LOVE and deeply understand what once divided. And, as you master the ability to tune in and read others hidden intentions you will make wiser, more profitable, more productive, and most importantly, more meaningful relationships with the few. The few that transform you and that allow you to transform them. These inter-dependent relationships are the absolute berries. Build a few and taste the difference.
The problem has to be attacked within, FIRST. And, as you turn your CORE into your sCORE,you will quickly find yourself kicking your masks to the curb. Master connectors understand that the curb is exactly where masks belong.
Where are yours…
BUILT TO LEAD 