Life has always been hard. Fact.
Way back in the day, the ancient Spartans built a team that embodied the opposite of fragility. The Spartans were anything but fragile as Nassim Taleb, author of the book titled Antifragile would accurately describe. Spartan antifragility was built in the Agog. The young Spartan boy from age 7-18 was built into a warrior. Tons of training, drills, routines, and battlefield simulators turned boys into men. In the Agog, these young Warriors were taught mental toughness. The leaders applied pressure and taught their young how to stand. Here’s another lesson from the “hot gates” and Steven Pressfield.
This is not very PC and will not pass for Progressive. This is The Spartan way, if you will, to building strong mental habits. I’m not suggesting you try this one on your team – start by trying to apply this lesson to yourself!
“The Peers in their messes are encouraged, when they deem it useful for the instruction of youth, to single out one lad, or even another Peer, and abuse him verbally in the most stern and pitiless fashion. This is called arosis, harrowing. It’s purpose, much like the physical beatings, is to inure the senses to insult, to harden the will against responding with rage and fear, the twin unmanning evils of which that state called katalepsis, possesssion, is comprised. The prized response, the one the Peers look for, is humor. Deflect defamation with a joke, the coarser the better. Laugh in its face. A mind which can maintain its lightness will not come undone in war.”
Mental toughness is built through stress. Do not buy the modern mantra. Leaders are not here to relieve pressure. Never have been. Leaders are here to help the system transmit the tension to its rightful owner. Leaders are here to help the team perform to their fullest, highest, and greatest potential. Leaders adapt to strength so the team evolves accordingly. And, leaders pull the weaker ones along as long as they have the will to work.
Today, in practice 86 with a tough team of grapplers, we are going to learn a bit more about building endurance and doing what we can. Real. Hard. Work. Good…