No if…

Practice ended and my client walked me toward the door. He’s about to make a game changing move in his work. It’s a great play. Going to level up him and his team. 

The gears were churning. He grabbed my shoulder and said something like, “can you imagine what this place will look like if we pull this off.” I STOPPED in my tracks. Turned to him and said stop saying that word. Confused he asked what word.

If. 

No if. BIG diff.

Tell yourself this will be done. This will transform the team. Talk to yourself and your team with shoot in your eyes, not questions. The words you mouth to yourself matter most. What spills out to others has been playing on repeat a long while in your head. STOP listening to your little voice filled with if’s. Instead command your mind. Tell it what’s going down and when. Command it. Small change. BIG diff. 

What words might make a BIG diff in your heart and in the hearts of those you lead? Words transform worlds. Wrecks ’em too. You choose. Your choices have consequences. Grateful. Damn.

Live hard. Love ❤️ harder…

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