Author: Chet

Power resides in your pen. Your thoughts turn into productive actions through the power in your pen. Your dreams turn into done so’s. Your anxieties lessen. Clarity comes. Confidence grows. You get things done and feel good while doing them. You see, friend, your brain needs your pen to organize and understand what, not only … Continue reading Power…

One, distinct and deeply connected is the hallmark of deep relationship. The problem lies in your distinction, however. The more distinct one becomes, the more likely the disconnects. It is a fine line between the two. Distinct and deeply connected is the ONE you want. Distinct and disconnected is a thin line away. Humility helps … Continue reading One, distinct and deeply connected…

Silent messages are life giving. Silent messages can be killers. Your words matter. Tone and body language matter more. We mostly remember “silent” messages. Speak less. Say more. I’m actively rinsing my worldview. This is a new, daily discipline. Why, you ask. Because I’ve been amazed how few of you (clients and practice participants) are … Continue reading Silent messages…

Life is paradox. Embrace it. We are poison and wine. So are all our relationships. Damn. This is another worldview of mine. What, friend, do you believe? Time for a hard rinse within? Live hard. Love harder. Embrace paradox…

Absolute truth exists. It's just really rare and rarely found. My favorite verse in the Bible is John 8:32 - And someday you shall know the truth and the truth will set you free. Last night during a trust building practice with a team of five we got a little closer to truth. We tip … Continue reading Truth…

The more I learn, the less I know. Pain narrows perspective. Peace widens it. Since the acute pain of March 27, 2021, my being is more peace filled. I’ve experienced peace on the other side of acute pain. My belief has deepened. Does this make it true? You have a worldview, a lens through which … Continue reading More…

Someday, God will return and put all things right. We know deep within, if we dare go there, that nothing makes sense this side of that day. Hope makes no sense in utter darkness. God is light. Run away and toward. We are all worshipers. The question is around who/what you worship. We are all … Continue reading I believes…

Small talk does little good. Meaningful conversation is medicine. TALK. Mostly listen. You will feel better. Better questions lead to better relationships. Your words matter but not nearly as much as tone and body language. You are the message. You aware of all the silent signals you’re sending? Slow down. Reflect. What do you believe? … Continue reading You are the message…