Author: Chet

More LOVE. Want to improve your performance? Get a bigger dream. One you love and can't control. One that lights you up whether anybody else gives a rip or not. Don't focus on the goal of another win or another National Championship. Focus on getting better. In the moment, you'll be present with a passionate purpose. … Continue reading More love…

For those new to this site, I had a heart attack on 3.27.21. Should have died if not for a few friends that knew me and amazing docs caring quickly for my sorriness. Fast forward to a few weeks back. My cardiologist is Doc Steve. Amazing dude. He takes my calls, responds to texts, and … Continue reading Nuke it…

You are hard wired to remember the negatives. Survival wiring. Remembering the negatives will keep you alive. If you want to keep getting better, hear and remember the positives. Today, during OSU Lacrosse practice 76, I asked a coach and athlete to remember an exchange they had on the practice field. The coach had given … Continue reading Better…

Most birds, in fact I’ve been told something like 90%, only sing when the conditions are just right. Most birds sing when they’re safe, satisfied, and secure. We humans are a lot like birds. Most of us only sing when our circumstances are freakin’ magic. The Lark is not a normal bird. You see, the … Continue reading Birds…

The BTL band is not normal, nor do we want to be. During practice this past Friday I described my vision for the next leader of this band. The one leading this thing once I’m gone or riding in the back seat will be the one who leads us in giving. You see, friend, this … Continue reading LA’s way…

When you think of masculinity, friend, what comes to mind? For most, it’s an image of the macho, macho man. The rugged individual, you know. Lone wolf archetype. Stud. I work with a number of tough dudes chasing excellence. Here’s a more accurate definition of the kinda masculinity they’re embracing. “Masculinity, first and foremost, ought … Continue reading Masculinity…

Resistance is the enemy of noble pursuit. And, pride is his best buddy... The hardest part in mastering your craft, building your literal core, or authoring your authentic OPUS isn't in getting started. All kinda well intentioned people start projects with real purpose and huge portions of passion. Few finish strong. Few... Most stop showing … Continue reading Resistance…

In 2000, one of my clients parents were Pebble Beach volunteers for the US Open. They were both given the assignment of chauffeuring a player. His mother was assigned to Tiger Woods. Every day, the players would be taken to the homes they rented on the course, and then to dinners and get-togethers. Except Tiger … Continue reading Choosing to cheat…